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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

10.06.2025 09:09

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

And i lived it daily.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

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Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Why do women change that much more with age?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Why do older men like to get anal sex?

Especially a lifetime of it.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Why don’t people want the American Dream anymore - marriage, kids, a dog, and the white picket fence?

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I have a black elbow sleeve leotard that I wear with sheer pantyhose. Should I keep my pants off and show my legs?

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

How did the trans issue metastasize within just a decade from being a question of kindness and tolerance to a tiny minority to convulsing a whole society?

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

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We all went to grammer schools

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

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Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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She was in good health!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I have no regrets .

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One cannot live in the past .

He knew the spot.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

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I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

What did i know ?

We were not on the streets..

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I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

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Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

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My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Put me off passion for life!!

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Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

So whats the point in blame.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

I never cut or harmed myself..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

But ive been too sick for many years..

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

But it wasn’t much.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I was very sick at this time too.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

All the time i was locked up.

When she asked me how she looked .

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

So, i spoilt her more .

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Why did i forgive my father ?

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Was to survive, this bastard.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

My life is so biszare .

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I was scared of men, in general

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

He resisted the act ,that day.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Comes on , in middle age.

This is soul school!.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I couldn’t, believe it.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I said to her

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

But, we were locked up after school.

She wouldn,t have been !

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Im still living with it.

Would this be the day?

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

My family never makes their pension either.

Who then, do I blame.?

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

She found it foreign!.

She loved him until the end.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

She married twice! .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

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I think the readers, may guess!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Ive learnt so much.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

(And it was in our own minds.)

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I waited trembling.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I write beautiful poetry .

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

It was going to be , some day.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I was seconnd youngest,

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I was 9 years of age.

I don,t even have a pension.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

As i do to all so called friends.?

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I will be 64.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..